I don't have health care. I can't afford health care, and the funny thing about that is...
...that I don't think I am entitled to health care just because other people can afford it.
I also think that there is a large portion of people who could afford health care if they prioritized it over eating out, getting wii's, buying dvds, etc. I only eat out maybe 12 times a year, own a relatively small number of dvds, and have bought most of my music and clothes with birthday money; however we did adopt a dog, get me a new computer, occasionally splurge on junk food, and buy a 2nd vehicle (the motorcycle). I'm sure I could have gotten health care instead-it just wasn't my priority
Yesterday I went with my husband as he wen't to help with some computer issues for a friend of my family's. These people have an extremely nice house with two fancy dishwashers, a very large yard, a nice tennis court, framed art every where, etc. I suppose I could have thought "this is not fair. I live with my parents. I think I should give one of her dishwashers to someone even less fortunate than I.
Here is the thing I don't think people understand. Rich people do a lot. This family I mentioned above does soooooo much for other people without expecting anything back. I once knew a single mother of 3 that they put through school-because goodness knows it is hard to go to school, make money to support 3 kids, and watch all of those kids simultaneously.
This family lets others use there lovely backyard for weddings free of charge, and I am not kidding when I say that they probably have at least 10 weddings at their home every summer.
These are the people that finance community playhouses and do not turn a profit.
These are people who donate numerous hours of their free time to the community.
These are people I respect and admire for their selfless service
So when I hear people talk about redistributing the wealth it makes me sad. I worry that when we take money away from people forcibly and give it to someone else, we are depriving that person of a chance to share their money freely. Attitude is everything... the whole spirit of giving and serving is lost. People become bitter about sharing as opposed to excited. And instead of grateful, those who receive become entitled.
and instead of charity and gratitude we are left with bitterness and selfishness.
I do hope to one day be rich. Who doesn't? and, if I ever am, I want to be the type of upper class that has the opportunity to struggle with the choice of more luxury vs. helping others.... I want that choice because I want to prove to myself that I can do the right thing--and that I can set that example for hundreds of others who will grow up to be wealthy.