I am a jerk, and I hate giving it to him. I don't know why. It's not that hard, it saves him time, takes me only minutes to at least help is aesthetics somewhat, and yet, for me it is a huge chore.
And then, every once in a while (like ever 3 years) I get this idea for a webpage I want Brett to make for me, and since I am picky a bit about design (though no pro with web), and because he struggles with it, I design the layout exactly how I want it.... and Brett looks at it, and thinks "seriously, you know what a tangle that would be to program?" And I, of course, don't want to compromise my visual logic for his programing logic.
But atlas, thus far I have never gotten past sketching up the home page, so it doesn't matter, because he never has to program my crazy ideas anyways.
What fun. You know, He's a programing genius and together we could probably make a super team, you know... if I were a nice helpful wife.
Well, I've had this idea for an adoption-prospective-parents web page for a while, and considering how involved and interactive I've envisioned it, I finally decided that if I really want it to be more than a blog, I really need to get this idea nailed down soon, because it might take a while to program (we might cheat and just put clear buttons over the "image" of my design, because, surprise, my husband needs to work). Oh, and we should probably get a moving on this child rearing thing, seeing as I'm getting past my prime here.
So, I haven't really looked through that many prospective-parent blogs/sites to see what is out there, mostly because some hopeful adopting couples annoy me with their sad sob stories or their overzealous cheerfulness, but nevertheless, this is the sketch up of how I want my homepage to work. I want mouseoves for every one with a super short bio, and for a little picture/about page to come up when you click on their name. For B and me, of course, their would be a lot more going on in our page.
It's missing something, but overall, I like it for trying to be custom without overextending myself (after all, I do want to actually get around to designing the other pages and collecting all the info for them).
Conversation after I showed B my design
"I'd rather just do Clomid than program all this"
"Oh YOU'd rather just go on Clomid would you? Besides, you still haven't brought your sample in. Would you rather bring a sample in than program this?"
Now taking votes. Will Brett bring in a sample, or will he program my dream page?














